Embodied Intimacy Coaching
for Couples & Individuals
Boulder, CO & online
Re-wild your capacity for power, connection & sexuality
My work is the modern-day Temple
.. A sacred, authentic relationship laboratory, co-created by us through presence, consent and endless curiosity.
Together, we expand your world, ushering in a new paradigm for your life—where you are clear, embodied, expressed, unafraid, and filled with pleasure and lifeforce.
If you know it’s time to cross the threshold..
I am your translator and bridge, from the unseen to the seen.
Welcome.
Hi, I’m Rheanna...
Transform what feels impossible.
I have spent a lifetime between worlds—from mystery, divinity, energetics, the unseen and the unknown; to the very human realms of polyamory, monogamy, success, failure, addiction, joy, and loss.
The truth is, your body is made through, of and for pleasure.
Getting into your body is how you get into your pleasure.
Yet in modern culture, people don’t often have the contexts, permission, or menu of options to learn what they truly want, or how to create it.
You’re not alone.
Many people have been hurt or confused by relationships, desires, boundaries, communication, religion, pornogrpahy, or sex itself.
Maybe you’ve been taught you had to be a certain way in order to be loved. Maybe you’re afraid to tell your partner what you want; or your body has changed and what turned you on in the past is not what arouses you now. Maybe you’re caught in cycles of stress, disconnect, getting by, shame, or loneliness. Maybe you want to learn new skills, are busy, or simply know that something more is possible.
If you’re here, you’re already on your way.
For couples …
Uncover the unspoken beliefs and underlying habits that are silently, and not so silently, tearing you apart
Reignite passion & delight in your relationship
Identify and navigate conflict & repair
Learn the bases of jealousy, resentment, betrayal—and the real reasons you’re fighting
Heal previous traumas
Co-create profoundly unique sexual initiations—to heal together or open new doors
Polyamory, CNM (Consensual Non-Monogamy) and open-relating
Consciously uncouple
For everyone …
Unlock your true desires
Populate your menu of desires
Map the pleasure of your body
Learn how to escalate a sexual encounter, with confidence and consent
Inhabit your body
Decrease anxiety, depression, and PTS
Transform religious harm
Psychedelic medicine work
My work is for you if you want to…
Hone your skills in turn-ons, communication, and emotional intelligence.
Shed shame, self-doubt and integrate trauma
Learn how to synch-up with a lover, in a single moment!
Relax into the safety of affection and nurturance without pressure to perform
Dive in to general life coaching. How you connect to pleasure is in many ways how you connect to LIFE. Heal distraction, get shit done, transform your work and personal life
“Who do you work with?”
I work with people of all genders and relationships who want to re-wild their connection to their bodies, hearts and eros through shamanics, somatics, presence, and initiatory experiences.
I specialize in ..
Those in high-stress or marginalized professions
All relationship configurations (ethical non-monogamy, monogamy, etc)
Physical, medical and sexual traumas
Religious deconstruction
“Low desire” (*it’s not what you think!)
Trauma-informed somatic release
Ancestral / family systems healing
Relationships as a spiritual path
Bespoke sexual initiations for individuals and couples
Psychedelic integration
Grief & loss
My work is efficient, direct, yet spacious and subtle. I thrive in the bardos, the in-between spaces where we don’t know what’s next; the uncertainty and tension that’s innate to change. I don’t “give you an experience”—I amplify what’s in the space and what you choose to bring. You lean in, you show up, and you will build habits and confidence for the rest of your life. You get the tools, knowledge, and practices to connect and show up—and yes, have mind-blowing sex.
Intimacy.. & everything else
I am a big believer that how we talk and touch is how we do the rest of our life. My work is through the gateway of sex and intimacy, but the education and healing you receive map directly onto the rest of your life.
What happens to your work and creativity when you hide from what you truly want in the bedroom? What happens to your ability to make decisions or stay focused when you feel ashamed, unsure, unmet, or bored in your sex life?
Now imagine what’s possible... when your body, desires, and needs are clear, spoken, and getting met; when your yes’s and no’s are aligned, and surging with life, ready to take on what’s in front of you.
It’s waiting for you.
Build emotional stamina and resilience
Learn invisible tools to use in-the-moment
Trauma & waking up
The truth is, what we call trauma is a natural, normal, and sane response of the body and mind, to an insane experience.
And I’m here to support you make sense of those experiences—so they don’t block you from the life and connections you long for.
No matter your past, you deserve to and can create a life that is playful, confident, and as wild as you want it to be.
I weave my training in tantric touch, embodiment practices, meditation, emotional release, and nervous system regulation, to support you in discovering and claiming your most powerful and connected self—at your pace, boundaries, and without re-traumatizing.
Be seen & touched at your pace
Heal, strengthen, and let your inner child come out to play!
Give a loving “no” in the face of disappointing the other person / people
